Matagal ko nang tinatanong at gustong malaman kung ano ba talaga ang mas masakit:
MANG-IWAN o MAIWANAN?
Lagi na lang kasi akong naiiwan. Curious lang ako kung ano ba ang pagkakaiba. Gusto kong malaman kung anong pakiramdam ng mang-iwan.
At dahil sa 'yo, ngayon alam ko na.
Sana alam mo kung gaano ako nagpapasalamat sa 'yo.
Sana alam mo...
7 comments:
Dati ko nang pinaniniwalaan na masmasakit maiwanan. Pero di ko pa napapatunayan sa sarili ko. Wala pa akong basis of comparison.
So ate Chinky, ano na ba talaga ang masmasakit?
maiwan. definitely. i know by experience... sad. fudge talaga. sana alam nila yun. lalong masakit pag nalaman mo na iniwan ka nya for someone else... someone "better"... :(
mas masakit maiwan, that i know for sure..when you leave someone, it only hurts coz you know you've hurt someone. partly guilt lang yun...nanakit ka. and that feels bad. but when you're the one who's been left behind, it hurts thrice as much coz, you want to be with that person, kaso ayaw niya. iniwan ka niya. i used to judge those people, parati kasi akong iniiwan. but then, when I'm the one who left somebody, i understood. it doesn't hurt as much tulad ng iwanan ka, but then, it still hurts. i think that's the main point, ate chinks. both sides nasasaktan. both. iba lang ang gravity. pero, still, parehong maskit.
i agree with everyone. sobrang sakit maiwan. I thought i would never feel the hurt u feel pag naiiwanan ka because i took all the neccessary precautions not to fall in love with someone who will not love me back. Pero narealize ko na kahit na ano pa ang ginawa ko wala sa mga kamay ko ang desisyon...I was left by the most unlikely person. It was hard..and it hurts till now. Hindi mo na alam kung kelan mawawala yung sakit.
Hi chinks!
Di ko kasi alam kung sa anong context tong sinasabi mo (friends, lovers, etc). Pero sa kaibigan, madaming beses na kong NANG-IWAN. Masakit din syempre. Pero mas masakit lalo na kung di mo masabi kung anong dahilan.
So I guess my belief still holds true -- masmasakit ang maiwanan. But if I were given the choice which one I'd be? I'd choose the one left behind. (Martyr daw ba?) It's true. I'd rather endure that kind of suffering than the guilt (and hurt, as well) of having left someone behind, even if my intentions were pure.
To ate Elaine, the pain could never fully be healed. Syempre, kahit sabihin mong natapalan mo na, iba pa rin kapag nasugatan ka na. Peklat na yan! Haha. But seriously, that kind of pain can never fully be forgotten. Onlyt accepted, and use for your own advantage. Sort of stepping stone na rin, I guess.
is it too late to post a comment? :)...
can't help it eh, lahat ng nagcomment pumipili ng isa. when actually, pareho lang un. mang-iwan, maiwanan.
mang-iwan. u feel guilty. u know u hurt someone. you don't want to hurt someone. but u did. and you are hurt too. in hurting others, u actually hurt urself so karamihan ng tao ayaw saktan ang iba, kasi in the end, they're just hurting themselves. the feeling is the same with maiwanan. the self is hurt. ouch...
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